Self doubt is very common among adults who were raised by narcissistic parents, but a narcissist may be anyone who has a tremendous impact on your life, whether, a parent, intimate partner or sibling.

You will have gradually fallen victim to a narcissist psychological conditioning – to the point where you detach from your sense of reality. Finally, the narc has you consumed with self-doubt and you are now easily controlled.

This personally happened to me, I grew up hearing how I would never amount to anything. My father would go as far as telling me that I owe him and I felt as if I should work extra hard to pay my “debt” almost being his slave.

My father blamed and shamed me for his financial problems, marital issues with my mother and even for his unfinished projects. I couldn’t understand why, unfortunately the frequency of this abuse made me believe him and I would apologize for it (self-doubt).

Learn the warning signs – Knowledge is power.

1. Self-Importance.

2. Immature and Selfish behavior.

3. Brags about your achievement to others but rarely ever validates you, acknowledges you, or support you emotionally.

4. Well-liked by others but controlling or harsh behind closed doors.

5. Makes you feel anxious and often lowers your confidence.

This is just some of the signs, be careful. Empower yourself. A narc will challenge your reality through confusion.